COMPETING LOVE

They say that if he fools you once– shame on him.. Fool you twice, shame on you.. But how do we really count mishaps in our relationships with people? When do we start counting one and when does one transcend into two..three and so on?

Usually, this is my case. I fall in love, he for some magical reason doesn’t love me back. I get hurt. He comes back and I count that’s one.. give hin the second chance..then you go over and over again tha same loop..then he disappears..you think there won’t be a next time.. but he comes crawling back to you and you earase all prejudices.. all ill feeling and tell yourself.. you love that man.. and then the count begins once more.

How many of is women really need to be put on an over and over situation where we fiond ourselves drenched with tears and pain just because we are preserving ourselves to the one we this IS THE ONE? How do we know when to start putting aside old feelings and look for new ones? With the ratio of 8 men is to 1 women, has this world really become a jungle for the survival and competition in getting the cream of the crop?